Satisfaksie

Ons is almal mense wat hinker na 'n beter lewe, na beter optredes, na 'n beter verhouding, na beter kommunikasie, plein net na 'n beter lewe. Die lewe begin by ons.

Maak dit regtig saak wat ander dink van wie ons is nie? Maak dit saak dat jy anders is as ander? Maak dit saak dat jou opinie dalk sterker deur kom as 'n ander persoon sin?

Jy laat toe dat die lewe jou vorm. Jy laat toe dat besluite jou lewe in 'n rigting draai. Dit is jou keuse wat jy met jou lewe maak. Jy kan kies watter woorde uit jou mond uit kom. Jy kan kies wat jy van iemand anders praat.

Laat toe dat jou woorde lewe skep en liefde gee. Laat toe dat jou woorde mense laat spesiaal voel. Laat toe dat jou woorde mense bemoedig en sterk maak. Gee jou mond die satisfaksie om woorde te spreuk wat bou en nie breuk.

Jy word geskaaf elke dag. Jy word gevorm en blink gevryf. Laat jou siel genees deur nie die lewe te vrees. Jy is sterk en vol moed. Die lewe is jou hoed, dra hom met gemak.

Questions and Answers

I realized that life will give you both questions and answers. You decide what questions you answer and which one's you don't. Will you hide from certain questions or face them head on? Will you only answers those who make you feel comfortable or will you let those invading questions penetrate your thoughts and own up to what you need to do to change?

Will you answer truthfully? Will you answer with no regret? Will you answer no matter how the answer sounds? 

Giving answers are not always easy but giving answers reveals your character and your personality. Giving answers gives you the opportunity to grow. Giving answers gives you power to change.

Do you only want to ask questions or do you want to give answers? Will you let questions and answers shape you into becoming the person you should? 

Never stop asking and never stop answering.............reveal the real YOU!!!

WORDS CREATE FUTURE'S!!!!!

What silence creates

When i was younger and very immature silence was my biggest friend. I never spoke up and never gave my opinion on anything. Being wordless and without opinions made me dry up from inside. I wanted my voice to be heard but never knew how to make it heard. I wanted to be that real me i knew was in there but how?

I started walking this journey called life and accepted challenges and climbed several mountains, with that said i climbed the same mountains twice even three times. You would ask me why? My answer is simple i never embraced ME, and never gave myself a chance to develop into something unique.

I cried tears day in and day out, tears of sadness, loneliness and anger. I was angry at people and myself for living this life i am, and then i made decisions and career changes and suddenly my life started turning around, still experiencing challenges and mountains but now i had a purpose to climb and even cry.

I learned that tears are good, tears give me hope for a new day because things can only get better form here. I could not let silence define me as a person. Silence kills the dream inside you that you might be hanging onto for dear life. don't hang on to tight, don't suffocate your dream and your thoughts. Speak up and Speak out, make your voice known.  YOU ARE WORTH IT!!!

Jou stem is sterk

Ek dink vanoggend aan sekere vrouens wat veg vandag vir hulle lewe en hulle gesondheid.
Ek dra hierdie op aan daardie vrouens wat oggend in en oggend uit na die bekommernisse kyk van vandag en leef om more weer te sien.

Ek is trots om hierdie tipe vrouens te ken en te weet hulle kan staan en hulle stemme dik maak en vertel van hulle vrese en hulle pyn. Hulle kan lewe in hierdie moeilike tyd, maar soveel hoop gee vir mense daar buite wat hopeloos verdwyn. Hulle trane vloei daagliks en hulle arms moet omhoog gehou word want hulle is swak.

Hulle leer ons van vertroue en van rus, hulle leer ons om weer by God te berus. Hulle stel n voorbeeld deur hulle pyn en smart, dat ons kan opstaan en weer kan praat. Hulle gee ons weer n stem, hulle gee ons weer 'n rede. 

Vrou van hierdie geveg, ek eer jou vandag vir sterk wees en jou gemoed, dat jy nie moed opgee en nie ophou veg. Jou lewe het betekenis en jou lewe het glans jy kan weer jy wees hou vas aan Sy hand en moenie moed opgee nie, Hy ken jou!!!!

The Fragrance of a lady

What is the real definition of being a lady?

Do you allow people to give you that meaning or do you supply that meaning to yourself through God's eyes?

Are you strong and courageous? Are you weak and frail? Whatever you are currently does not define you. You can be everything you want to be and more. Your life is dependable on God's grace and His grace alone. Your beauty is not subject to what people say or do towards you. 

Peoples words can create chaos and confusion if you let it. You are special in your own unique way.

Your smile, Your face, Your elegance that is who you are. 

Being a lady is an honor and a privilege. Stand up for who you are and never let anyone talk down to you. Keep your chin up and start looking people in their eyes and take control of your confidence. 

Make sure you find your purpose and your anchor of hope!!

Reflections of truth

Going through a specific difficult time in my life i had numerous occasion where i was confronted with who i really am and what i am becoming. I had so many questions about life, myself and circumstances around me.
Sometimes i became scared of the reality of the life i was leading and went through situations with certain blinders on my eyes. I had to face harsh realities, like making certain decisions to change my situation and experiences.
I was hiding behind pride, knowledge and pretenses. By allowing myself to embrace change and the real me and growing in new challenges and situations i can start now to embrace my life, my meaning and my future.
Everyday is a new challenge and a new journey, but i know that for me to go ahead in life i have to take up all challenges and even questions and try to get the answers i need from the right source. 
Only by grace and love i can achieve my goals and be who i truly need to be.

Reflection of truth is something pure out of my heart about my journey so far.....